Friday, April 2, 2010

Sadness and change


I have been very sick the past few weeks and during this time my husband has asked for a divorce.This has left me heartbroken but i know that hearts mend i have been down this road before and hoped never to travel it again.That's why i haven't posted i will gradually get myself together and my son Alex and I will start again.Not in this house i have made my home.I will need to get rid of a lot of my stuff but we all know in the end stuff is just stuff.Its the not having someone to share things with i will miss ,i thought we would grow old together.There is no hate between us ,sometimes too much happens to people and i think thats what happened to us,We have been through a lot.Im trying to pull my socks up and get on with life,this post is proof of that.
Anyway im on the mend at least physically and i lost 6 kilos due to not being able to eat i was so upset. So there a bonus.I just wanted you to know why i havent been on or visiting blogs as i love to do.

28 comments:

Marilyn said...

Life is a long bumpy road for all of us one way or the other. We just have to believe that there is a reason why.....Since I have been blogging I have come to understand we all have diffuculties. Some more serious than another BUT there is good news. If you trust in God he will bring you through this.
I truly believe this as I am now with Breast Cancer & going for my 3rd surgery next week. I trust there is a light at the end of the tunnell & it is not a train!!
Have a Blessed Easter Weekend...
Love,
Marilyn
{{{HUGS}}}

Terri Gordon said...

Hello, I am so sorry to hear, you will be in my thoughts and prayers. I am so sorry. Hugs, Terri

Sue said...

Jules, you are much stronger than you think, and you know friends and family are close by if you feel like leaning on us...
Be seeing you soon x

Tam Hess said...

Thinking of you my blogger friend. Hugs! xoxo

vivian said...

aww.. Jules.. I hate thinking of you with a broken heart. I feel bad for you, but you are strong, I can tell by your post that you will perservere. I wish people didnt have to hurt in our world.. but we do.. and then sometimes we hurt for our friends too.. big hugs to you!
i hope you are able to enjoy the easter holiday with your son inspite of your situation. How old is alex?
hugs!!!
vivian

A Bite of Country Cupcakes said...

Oh Jules....That is such sad news.
You deserve to be happy and have had lots to shoulder,But gee...I never thought this would be news you'd share.
Big hugs your way.

I See The Bridge! (Linda Lilly Cottage) said...

Oh Jullie, how sad for you, I do feel for you! I do however know you are a strong woman who will do the very best whatever the situation!!
I will do MY very best to find some wildlife story's to entertain you with...even if I have to put my life at the mercy of lizards and such things...eeeewwww!
Keep smiling, keep visiting and keep up those fat aunty hugs..
Kiss Noises Linda MOi

Amanda said...

So sorry to hear your news. I find Blogging and reading them so comforting so a big thank you to people like you who keep going even when life gets in the way.

Wendy said...

Hi Jules, this is my first time leaving a comment on your blog and I want to say, I'm sorry for this storm you're going through. Divorce is like a death, dreams have not been fulfilled and while you and others have acknowledged that you're strong, it still hurts nonetheless. Take day by day and sometimes even moment by moment. Surround yourself with those who are loving and supportive and give yourself time and space to grieve.

Keke said...

Oh Jules,
I sent you an email and it came back undeliverable,[???], so I jumped on your blog to see what was happening, I've been off line for a while even my email, I am so sorry, are you sure. AH and I have had our "Big D" rough patches and fought our way through...are you sure this can't be saved? It's not easy, and AH and I both came out bloody but we're still here...and stronger for it.I'll be praying sweet friend, I'll pray with out ceasing! I'm speechless and just so, so sorry...my heart is broken for you. I'm sending you the biggest love...I wish I were there to give it in person, we could have tea [maybe something stronger :)] and chocolates and laugh and cry and somehow feel better for it.
XO XO
Keke

~Becca~Bluebird Rose said...

Awww, Jules, I am so so sorry, Sweetie.
(((((hugs to you)))))
~Becca~

Amy said...

Jules! I am so so sorry! What a difficult time for you! I am sending lots of good thoughts and healing prayers your way.

-Amy
Crafting by Candlelight

nbeltane said...

sending you all of my love jules, and im here if you need to chat.. hugs N.

Terri said...

Jules, I am so sorry for your pain. My thoughts are with you and I send you a big {{hug}} of love.

Chelise said...

Hey there. I don't know you - but I wanted to let you know that I happened upon your blog, and that I am praying for you.

I mentioned your blog in my own:

http://chelsmending.blogspot.com/2010/04/believe.html

xoxo - Chelise

CARMELINA LOUNSBURY said...

i can only imagine how you must be feeling...my thoughts are with you during the time of stress.

we all seem to adjust to 'change' somehow...even when we think we cannot possibly pull through, we do.

sincerely
carmelina

Sea Dream Studio said...

Wishing you happier days!
xoxo

cherub*wishes said...

Oh Sweetie you're in my thoughts ... I hoping for the sweetest things for you in your life in your new season... change is not always easy but sometimes necessary for a healthier and happier life ... I say this from experience of the past 36 months. I didn't realize that at first and my heart was broken looking at the immediate picture of how things were. It's still sometimes a challenge but I know that God will never give me more than I can handle ... know that will all my heart :)
Love you Jules!!
Dee

Glenda said...

I am here for you my dear sweet friend, I pray that you will be strong and get through this yukky time. I hope only good things for you and Alex.love yah Glenda

A Gift Wrapped Life said...

It was lovely to hear from you and I am only sorry that you are having a difficult time. But you seem like a pretty strong lady with a positive attitude and that will pull you through to the other side. All the best.

Southern Lady's Vintage said...

Such sad news Jullie. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Laura Ingalls Gunn said...

Oh I am praying for YOU!

Peta said...

I am so sorry to hear that Jules, I am here if you want to chat or vent xxx

onargyll said...

Pick up your bags and dust yourself off, together my friend we will travel on our journey, behind you your friend follows and she will kick your backside until again you run xx

Marilyn said...

Hi Jules,
So sorry for what you are going through. If there is one thing that I know about women though its that we have amazing resilience. We know that we have to say to ourselves, that this is OUR life, and that we need to fill it with the best things we can. We choose for everyday to be the best we can make it. You can do this Jules, as so many women are doing this right beside you. Be the best and happiest you know how! Don't let anyone take a minute from you girl.

Genuine offer... if you feel like a break away in a different environment for a few days.. I would love to have you and your son come visit me.
Marilyn x

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"Whenever Someone Thinks of You, That's Where Home Is."

God bless...

cherub*wishes said...

Thinking of you Jules....
& praying for you and your family.
Hugs,
Dee

Mom of 2 Roses said...

Jullie,
I am so sorry about you and Neal!! I miss you more than you can possibly know! If I could give you a great big hug I would!
Laurie